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Hi, my name is Raj, I am from Bangalore city in India. I am a kind, patient, understanding, intellectual person. About my hobbies - i like traveling, horse riding, river rafting, rock climbing, playing football and chess. I have been speaking English since my school days as I studied in Canadian International school and communicated with friends and family members in English.

Single mothers

Questions for discussion:

  1. What are the factors contributing to the changes in society for single mothers?
  2. Where are the families and society social structures heading to in the modern world? How was the situation in the past?
  3. Why it’s mothers who raise children after divorce in Russia? How is it in other countries?
  4. What is it like to be a single mother?


Questions for discussion:

  1. What things do you first notice about someone's appearance?
  2. What do you think when you look at yourself in the mirror?
  3. What, in your opinion, is special in your appearance?
  4. What styles of dress do you like most of all?
  5. How much time do you spend on your appearance when you want to look really good? What is good looking for you?


Questions for discussion:

  1. What is a good education?
  2. When does education begin?
  3. What do you remember about your teachers? Who was your favorite teacher? Did you have any teachers you didn't like?
  4. Do you still stay in touch with your teachers?
  5. Do you know anyone who attended a private school? Do private schools offer higher quality education or are they just prestigious?


Reading: Difference Between Goal and Ambition

“Goal” and “ambition” are often used interchangeably as many thought that both contain the same meaning. Although both terms are used in the same context, they are completely different from one another.


  1. What is feminism?
  2. Why isn’t there something called ‘masculinism’?
  3. Are people in your country totally fair and equal to women and men?
  4. What do you know about the history of feminism?
  5. What have feminist movements achieved in your country?
  6. Do you think feminism sometimes has an unfair image?
  7. Why do you think relatively few women belong to feminist movements? Can men be feminists?
  8. What important things should men know about feminism?


  1. Do you have or want children? Why?
  2. Have you had much experience with children?
  3. Do you like children of all ages (babies, toddlers, adolescents/teenagers)?
  4. Do you think everyone should have children?
  5. How many children should people have?
  6. What’s your opinion of people who choose not to have children?
  7. What’s your understanding of the terms “childless” and “childfree”? 
  8. What do you think of clubs for childless and childfree people?

Live-in Relationship VS Marriage

A man is opposite to a woman only on the physiological level. In no other way are they opposite. But we have made such a big issue of it. It is a simple difference nature has made for the perpetuation of the race but because this need is there within you, and because you have a few more sensibilities and stronger emotions compared to an animal, we institutionalized our sexuality. That is what marriage is. And because we have to nurture our children and bring them up, unless there is a committed atmosphere, it is not going to happen properly. So we created this institution of marriage so that your sexuality and caring for progeny is also handled, and children grow up in more stable atmospheres.

How to make separation/divorce less painful for children?


Seeing your parents divorce is hard for any child, young or old. After all, the family unit as they know it may be changing overnight. By giving them the right emotional and mental support you can help them emerge stronger from the experience. Here’s what you need to know. When you and your spouse separate, it has emotional and mental fallout for your kids too. Children experience a sense of loss, anxiety, fear of abandonment, anger, and even guilt that they may somehow be responsible. From stranger anxiety to irritability and anxiety in smaller kids to slipping grades and behavioral issues in teens, every age group handles divorce differently. It isn’t going to be easy, but, fortunately, there’s plenty you can do to make it less painful. Start with some simple but effective steps that’ll help you approach the situation better. 

The Recipe for a Happy Marriage

The English expression, “falling in love,” is significant because you don’t rise in love, you don’t fly in love, you don’t walk in love, you don’t stand in love. You fall in love, because something of who you are has to go. It essentially means someone else has become far more important than yourself. Only if you don’t think too much of yourself, you can be in love. When what you consider as “me” falls, a deep experience of love can happen within you. If your marriage is just a bundle of expectations about how to extract happiness out of someone who should make heaven for you, you will be disappointed. They say marriages are made in heaven. They say that because most people created a hell out of their marriage! If your relationship is about extracting something out of someone, it does not matter how much you manage, there will be constant trouble. But if your relationship was an offering to the other person, then everything would be fantastic.

Tests and Exams

Questions for discussion:

  1. Do you have standardized exams for students in your country?
  2. Have you taken a standardized exam? Why did you take it? Were you happy with the results?
  3. Do you think they are useful? Do you think they are fair?
  4. Do you think they are a good assessment for how well a student is learning? Should there be exams or tests at all?

Tests and Exams

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Questions for discussion:

  1. What is privacy?
  2. How do you maintain your privacy at home? At school?On the Internet? When using Facebook? When you travel? When talking on the phone?
  3. What are the reasons why privacy is important for you?
  4. To what extent do public officials have a right to privacy?


Questions for discussion:

  1. What is your definition of cheating?
  2. Have you ever cheated?
  3. Why do you think that people cheat?
  4. Have you ever cheated in an exam?


Questions for discussion:

  1. What is cloning?
  2. What are the advantages of cloning?
  3. What are the disadvantages of cloning?
  4. Do you think animals should be cloned?
  5. Do you think vegetables should be modified?


Questions for discussion:

  1. What is the age for mandatory retirement in your country?
  2. At this stage of your life, are you beginning to make plans for your retirement years? Why?
  3. What would be a perfect retirement for you?
  4. Ranging from 1-10, 10 being the highest, how would you rate your career? Why?

Body Language

Questions for discussion:

  1. Why do you think body language is important?
  2. How do you use body language in your daily life?
  3. How does body language help you to communicate?
  4. How does your native culture use body language?
  5. What kind of body language do you use at school, University and work place?

Questions that will change your life

Questions for discussion:

  1. Why don’t you do the things you know you should be doing? 
  2. What are your values in life? Are you being true to them? 
  3. What does success mean to you?
  4. If you achieved all of your life’s goals how would you feel? How can you feel that along the way?
  5. Do you prefer to be focused on today or tomorrow?

Thought Provoking Questions About Life

Questions for discussion:

  1. When was the last time you tried something new?
  2. What makes you want to do better?
  3. What do you love to do? Do you do it often? If the answer is no, why not?
  4. Have you done anything lately worth remembering?
  5. What can you do today that you could not do a year ago?

Hobbies and Interests

  1. What hobbies do you have?
  2. Name three hobbies that you would have liked to try out and why?
  3. What are your interests? Is there any activity you would really like to do, but have no time for it?
  4. How do you usually spend your free time? How do you perceive it: as an opportunity for rest & relaxation or the time for developing yourself, making something important?
  5. Have your hobbies changed throughout the years? How have the changed and why do you think that is?

Middlelife Crisis (Revisited)

Questions for discussion:

  1. What is the definition of midlife crisis?
  2. Di you have your midlife crisis?
  3. Do you think everyone has a midlife crisis?
  4. What can you do to minimize midlife crisis?

The red hot business of divorce celebration

The red hot business of divorce celebration

By Barbara Balfour

After finalising a painful divorce Wendy Lewis decided there was only one way to celebrate - by blasting her wedding dress with a machine gun. To get the job done the newly divorced American gathered her female friends - and the dress - and flew to Las Vegas, Nevada for a long weekend.

Talk about three things (revisited)

Questions for discussion:

  1. Can you talk about three things you like about yourself?
  2. Can you talk about three things you dislike about yourself?
  3. Can you talk about three things you can't do?
  4. Can you talk about three things you need to do everyday?
  5. Can you talk about three things that scare you?

Gender Conversation

1) Which gender do you think makes the best bosses? Can you give a
reason? Have you had any direct experience or is it just an opinion?
2) Would you rather have a male or a female secretary? Why?
3) Does one gender takes more time off from work than another?
4) Which gender spends the most time shopping? Which gender is most
likely to ask strangers for directions?
5) Is one gender unable to "see" unwashed dishes or unmade beds? Is
one gender "overly" concerned with tidiness? What is your experience?

Generation Gap

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Feelings that drive us crazy

Questions for discussion:

  1. Do you get annoyed when other people display bad manners? Could you give some examples?
  2. Do you get annoyed when someone cuts in front of you when you are waiting in line?
  3. Do you get angry when politicians make promises they can't keep?
  4. Do you get annoyed when you watch the news on TV and see all the terrible things happening in the world?
  5. Does it annoy you when shop assistants try to sell you things you don't need?

Russia and The World

  1. Would you like to spend the rest of your life in Russia? If not, what country would you like to live in?
  2. Are there many Russians living in the former republic of the Soviet Union?
  3. What is their position in the society in such countries as Estonia, Latvia, Lithuania? What problems do these people face?
  4. Can you describe the gas conflict with Ukraine? What was and still is the problem? What is the position of Europe?
  5. Is it easy for Russians to get a visa to European countries and the USA?

Dream House and Living Arrangements

  1. Do you like spending time at home? Where do you live and lived before?
  2. When you were a child, did you have to share a bedroom with your siblings? Did you like it or did you want your own room?
  3. Which part of Moscow do you live? What are good and bad areas to live in Moscow and in your town?
  4. What would be your ideal living arrangement:
    •  house in a city
    •  flat
    •  studio
    •  cottage
    • castle

Immortality: a myth or near future?

Questions for discussion:

  1. Why are so many people afraid of death, when it is unavoidable?Are you scared of death?
  2. What do you think lies beyond the death? Do you believe in life after death?
  3. Do you believe in reincarnation?
  4. If you could choose, where would you be born and when?
  5. If you could re-live your life, what would you change?

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